How to attract beautiful women is something some of my clients (and friends) have been asking me to explain lately. So, I thought I’d write an article to help anyone out there that wants to attract beautiful women with the law of attraction. (Though, I don’t teach it exactly like everyone else because I think most, if not all, of the changes arise just from the reactions that occur from changing yourself.)
So, what is the law of attraction? It’s the idea that like things attract each other. And though that seems an odd place to learn how to attract beautiful women (because after all, most of the people reading this article are not beautiful women–though, please feel free to continue if you are!), it’s actually the optimal place. This is because if you want to attract beautiful women, you have to have something that they want. You have to be attractive to them. Now, the question is how? Do you have to be just like them? No. But you have to be enough like them to find rapport so that you can find common ground (and also, people feel more comfortable around people that are similar to them).
And honestly, most guys do this to their detriment. They forget how similar they are to the women they’re talking to in their quest to be machismo or “who they really are”. I mean, think about it, how often do you look at a beautiful women and then consider all the reasons she won’t like you and why she’d reject you? If you’re like most men this is your problem: you focus so much on how she’s perfect (and thus better than you) or how she’s so beautiful (way more attractive than you, right?) or how “girls like that” only like guys that have traits xyz that you don’t have (cars, money, brains, the body, fame, etc.). And for what? (Are you so much of a control freak you don’t even want to give her the option to accept or reject you? Notice to choose otherwise, is to reject yourself on her behalf… )
So, how can you use the law of attraction to attract beautiful women? Well, first, you need to do some internal work and tighten up your internal game. The standard law of attraction is amazing at this part.
To get started, clarify what you want. In this case, to attract beautiful women. Or better yet, to have a life overflowing with beautiful, available women. Now, consider the negative things that already pop up just by clarifying what you want (e.g. you’re not good enough, no women will ever love you, those kind of women go for handsome rich guys… ). Note these. Now, imagine yourself actually living a life overflowing with beautiful available women that find you attractive and charming. Again, note the blocks that arise. These and the previous list (they’re probably about the same) are the major hurdles for your inner game.
Start working on these asap and do this process until you can see yourself attracting beautiful women everywhere you go. Once you can do this and you’ve overcome the blocks (not just repress them–that’s the exact wrong thing to do: that’s what’s kept them there!), then you can move into meeting women in real life. Though, it’s not detrimental to talk to women during this process itself because what you’re doing is repeatedly training your unconscious mind to react differently to beautiful women so that when you do interact with them, you’re able to get the results you want rather than the results your old habits are giving you. In other words, if you’re working diligently on this, you should begin to see small results that snowball on themselves until you have what you want.