I recently received a message from one of my loyal subscribers. In the e-mail he explained that he knew a good deal about the game and how it is meant to be played, but he was still unable to make himself approach hot, beautiful women. He went on to tell me that he was frustrated at seeing gorgeous women and not being able to approach them because of his shyness.
The reason why I am sharing this is because I know that there are many people out there that have this problem. In fact, I used to have this issue until I learned how to overcome my fear of rejection and forced myself to boldly approach attractive woman.
I believe there comes a moment in every mans life where he has to decide what he wants to be. He has the choice to either become that courageous individual who does not fear rejections or he can choose to remain a coward and let his fear consume him.
Unfortunately, a very large percentage of men choose to let their fears limit them. This is incredibly sad, because confidence will not only help you in your dating life, but it will also help you in your professional life. Each person has the potential to eliminate his fear and find confidence in him or herself. If you eliminate your fear of rejection, then you can become incredibly successful in your dating life.
It is disturbing to find that so many people are unwilling to take risks these days. It is even more disturbing to find that many politicians, education systems, and mainstream media are designed to keep you from making risks in life.
This information probably explains why there is typically only one percent of people in the game that are highly successful. A study shows that 80 percent of the men who go to self-help and dating advice seminars have little or no results. 20 percent produce decent results, while only one percent of the men produce outstanding results
This 80-20-1 division is also seen in many other areas of life. For example, 80 percent freelance writers make little to no cash, 20 percent make a decent regular income through writing, while only one percent are highly successful freelance writers.
Fortunately, you have the power to decide which group you end up in. Ignore the actions of the 80 percent who are unsuccessful. Instead, focus on the 20 percent or the one percent that are successful. Learn from their belief systems, their thoughts, their behavior, their philosophies, etc. If you do this, then you will be on the right path that leads to success.
Remember, this advice can be applicable to your personal, dating, and professional life. If you want to become a writer, then learn from the leading individuals of the profession. If you want to be successful with picking up and attracting women, then follow the advice of pick up artists who have proven themselves to be good at the game. This advice may seem simple, but it is incredibly powerful.
By Ray Drake